Your body has changed—and suddenly, nothing feels quite right anymore.
For many women, a few extra kilos after pregnancy, with age, or simply through life are seen as something normal. And for some, it truly is. They accept it, move on, and don’t question it too much.
But for others, it doesn’t feel that simple.
A few days ago, I had dinner with a friend. She told me she had gained around six kilos and was struggling with it. “It’s not ok for me,” she said. “I’m trying to lose them.” She is adapting, but at the same time, she is actively working on feeling more like herself again.
And maybe you’ve felt something similar.
Have you ever looked at yourself and felt like you didn’t quite recognise your body anymore?
Have you ever opened your wardrobe and realised that nothing seems to work the way it used to?
Some women accept the changes in their body—but don’t adapt their wardrobe. They keep wearing the same clothes, the same shapes, the same combinations. And that’s often where the frustration begins.
Because it’s not just about the weight.
It’s about how you feel in your clothes.
It’s completely okay if your body changes. It’s also okay if you don’t feel comfortable with it. Both can exist at the same time.
You can want to feel better in your body—and at the same time learn how to dress the body you have today.
Because while you’re working towards your goals—if you have any—you still deserve to feel good now.
Sometimes, it’s not about having more clothes.
It’s about choosing differently.
And when your clothes start to support how you feel today, everything becomes a little easier again 💫
with love, lamiaboutiqueitaliana